The sex ed you wish you'd had.

step bi step

My debut book, Step Bi Step, is the first ever bisexual handbook specifically for young people.

It's the book I wish I’d had when I was a teen.

My debut book, Step Bi Step, is the first ever bisexual handbook specifically for young people.

It's the book I wish I’d had when I was a teen.

Purchase Step Bi Step

Step Bi Step: The Ultimate Guide for Bisexual, Pansexual & Queer Young People is my debut book, published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers in September 2025. It is suitable for ages 13+.

Am I really bisexual if I haven't kissed someone of the same gender?   How do I handle people sexualising my identity?   What does it mean if I like one gender more than others?

With advice from bi+ activists and influencers including Megan Jayne Crabbe, Sofie Hagen, Pearl Mackie, and Zachary Zane, this is your guide to thriving as a bi, pan, or queer young person. Tackling everything from myths, misconceptions and biphobia, to coming out, dating and sex, Laura Clarke - sex educator and LGBTQIA+ expert - will help you explore, reflect on, and embrace your bi+ identity.

praise for step bi step

“

This book made me realise just how deep in the closet I’d been — buried under years of bi erasure and biphobia. It gave me a sense of belonging I didn’t know I was missing. ”

Shaparak Khorsandi, comedian & author

“

Step Bi Step is the uplifting, reassuring guide I wish I’d had when I was figuring out my sexuality. Laura writes with so much humour and warmth and I know this is going to be an invaluable resource for so many young people. ”

Milly Evans, sex educator & author

“

Guides readers through the joys and challenges of bi+ identity with an abundance of heart, compassion, and wisdom. An absolute gift of a book. ”

Cody Daigle-Orians, asexuality educator & author

buy the book

Step Bi Step is available via the links below. (Please support queer indie book stores where possible!)

Buy from Bookshop.org

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events and signings

Interested in booking me for a panel event or signing? Get in touch!

step bi step

step bi step

Step Bi Step: The Ultimate Guide for Bisexual, Pansexual & Queer Young People is my debut book, published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers in September 2025. It is suitable for ages 13+.

praise for step bi step

“

This book made me realise just how deep in the closet I’d been — buried under years of bi erasure and biphobia. It gave me a sense of belonging I didn’t know I was missing. ”

This book made me realise just how deep in the closet I’d been — buried under years of bi erasure and biphobia. It gave me a sense of belonging I didn’t know I was missing. ”

“

Step Bi Step is the uplifting, reassuring guide I wish I’d had when I was figuring out my sexuality. Laura writes with so much humour and warmth and I know this is going to be an invaluable resource for so many young people. ”

Step Bi Step is the uplifting, reassuring guide I wish I’d had when I was figuring out my sexuality. Laura writes with so much humour and warmth and I know this is going to be an invaluable resource for so many young people. ”

“

Guides readers through the joys and challenges of bi+ identity with an abundance of heart, compassion, and wisdom. An absolute gift of a book. ”

Guides readers through the joys and challenges of bi+ identity with an abundance of heart, compassion, and wisdom. An absolute gift of a book. ”

buy the book

events and signings

laura@mybodyandyours.com

laura@mybodyandyours.com

07812 497482

07812 497482